Sunday, 8 April 2018

What is the best way to impress a girl?

        What is the best way to impress a girl?
The most complicated task in today's date is to impress a girl you like. You can't just be friends with her or watch her throughout your life.
To approach a girl in a way she likes . Though, stalking a girl, forcing her or teasing her is not a part of this. Instead, you need to do just the opposite of these things to get her to like you.
Without wasting any time let's move ahead and discuss the points
Impress your crush – It is very natural and common for you to have a crush on someone.
When you have a crush on someone, you start thinking of ways to talk to them or atleast get them notice you. While you might have seen your friends doing certain things to impress their rush, you want to think of out-of-the-box ideas and innovative methods to make an impression.
While wisdom says to us tried and tested ways to woo your crush, you are not sure if something that has been tried earlier will work again. Here are a couple of innovative ways in which you can impress your crush.
Ways to Impress your crush –
1 – Lend them a helping hand
All of us need some help and support on a daily basis. We find ourselves entangled in situations which we need some help to get out from. No matter how independent one claims to be, one needs to depend on people to get through different situations. Youneed to keep a close eye on your crush and wait for the time when they need some sort of help. There will be people around to helpthem but you should be the first one to make the move. Helping them would pave the way for you to introduce yourself to your rush and then, forging a bond with them.
2 – Put together a public performance
If you are good at performing arts, it could be a major asset for you while trying to impress your crush. You could sing, dance or stage a play and invite your crush to come and watch it. Most of us have some talent that sets us apart from others. We kept it hidden from public view and do not let people know about it because we are conscious about it. It is time to let your inhibitions go. When your crush discovers your talent, they will start noticing you and might just show some interest in you.
3 – Cook upsomething
The way to a person’s heart is through his or her stomach. The idea of taking your rush or loved out to an expensive restaurant for lunch or dinner is passé. Dining at an expensive restaurant could make them happy but what would make them happier is having food cook by you. If you are a good cook, that is great.If not, do not worry. Look up a recipe book and whip up a dish that would please your crush. Just make sure that you taste the dish before you serve it.
4 – Gift them something unique
Gifting your crush a [resent is the first idea that comes to most people’s mind. But, most people do notspend enough time or effort while buying a gift for their crush. If you want to gift your something, you must get something that is unique and would make them think of you for a very long time. Of course, teddy bears and bouquets are clichéd items and should be chalked out of the list immediately. Try to find out what your crush likes and then, gift wrap something which would not only make them happy but also surprise them.
5 – Seek a common friend’s help
Instead of getting in touch with them directly, ask a common friend to talk to them. A lot of people are, quite naturally, scared of rejection and hence, fail to muster the courage to talk to such a situation, it is better to seek the help of a commonfriend whom you trust to convey your feelings to your crush. You must make sure that they communicate what you intend to be communicated and do not mess things up.
6 – Dress to kill
You could be someone who did not care about you looked. But now, you have to take some hood care of yourself in order to impress you crush. Lose some weight and get rid of that pair of jeans you have been wearing for a year. Even if you are going to the college, you must be dressed for a party. If your appearance helps you stand out among a group of people, a lot of people, including your crush, will start noticing you. Your appearance might not be the important thing but it is important nevertheless. Before you make an impression with any of your other qualities, you need to
DRESS GOOD
The first impression is the last impression. Girls actually like good dressers, wear your best when you are going to meet her.
Show her your hygienic side, smell good around her. It certainly plays a major role in influencing her to show trust in you.
If not for anything, a good dressing will give you the confidence to impress her.
BE A GENTLEMAN
Always try to be polite around a girl, if she is your dream girl, she should never feel uncomfortable around you. Always make it feel like home for her.
Treat her politely, behave like a Gentleman. Show an attitude which is full of love not hatred for others. Always behave well with your inferiors.
Girls just love this quality, so if you have it, then my friend, you are one step closer to impress her.
DOUBLE CHECK WHAT YOU UTTER
Mostly it happens that you prepare the whole night to talk to the girl you love the next morning. But when you ultimately face her, you end up babbling words and uttering nonsense.
This is something you should avoid, stop thinking about what to say to her and just speak your heart out. If she likes you and accepts you as you are, good enough, else just let her go.
She is not meant to be with someone like you, she doesn't deserve you. So, to avoid speaking nonsense, think twice before you speak.
COMPLEMENT HER
It is crystal clear that if you like her then there must be something in her that is worth appreciating. And never ever hesitate in doing so, speak up, appraise her beauty, her polite nature.
I promise she won't feel bad and will just be impressed by you. In most cases, boys can't even gather up the courage to tell a girl what they like about her. But, this shouldn't be your case. Next time remember a good impression starts with a good compliment.
MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL
Another thing that you can do to get her to like you is to make her feel special.
If you are asking how it totally depends on you. Just be genuine, whatever you do just don't pretend.
A fake impression never lasts too long, make her feel special in a way you think is suitable for her. However, make sure not to cross that thin line of comfort as beyond that she won't feel special instead would just feel unsafe around you.
Start with the basics, know her then reach to a point when you come to know about the thing which is missing from her life.
Fill that empty space for her and she won't leave you ever.
DONT WASTE TIME
If you have done everything mentioned above and still she isn't much impressed by you. Then it's time for you to make a move.
Most boys take so long in making their first move that the girl end up being with their best friend. So, if you think she is quite a little interested in you. Then move ahead and make a move, ask her out on a date.
The more you wait, the lesser you get. Hop in and impress her with your confident personality, ask directly, not through a friend.
ACCEPT HER DECISION
The most important point of this lesson is to accept her decision. Even though you felt like she is the one, there is a fair chance that she doesn't feel the same for you.
Sometimes the spark isn't just there, in such case, back away gracefully. Happily, accept her decision and be with someone who will appreciate the person you are. And she will come in your life.
Believe me, good things take time but they happen.

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